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Il faut rappeler que la plupart des gens comme nous n’ont pas le réseau de soutien dont vous vous vantez. C’est bien plus facile à pleurer dans la nuit quand vous savez qu’il y a toujours quelqu’un qui vous écoute. Non, ce n’est pas comme ça exactement. C’est bien plus facile à cesser de pleurer dans la nuit quand tu sais qu’il y a toujours quelqu’un qui t’écoute. Qui te croit. Qui s’inquiète de toi. Qui connait et comprend tous tes problèmes, grâce au simple fait que tu les lui as raconté tous, mille fois. C’est bien plus dur à cesser de pleurer dans la nuit quand la vie doit être vécu dans le silence d’une force habituelle, comme font les autres. Le silence est ma force. Aucun autre chemin s’ouvre à moi, j’ai accepté ce fait. Tout ce que je te demande est-ce que tu prends conscience du monopole de soutien que tu as entre tes mains. Les autres ne sont pas si bien soutenus. Ils se sentent invisibles, ignorés, obscurcis, en raison de leur silence craintif. Ils ont peur, mais quel genre de peur ont-ils? Bien sûr il faut absolument que leur peur soit pareil à la tienne, ou bien pire, sinon ce n’est aucune peur. C’est une bêtise, un exemple de leur manque de maturité, un exemple de leur faiblesse inhérente! Ceci est l’attitude de ce site, et des gens particuliers qui l’utilisent. Elle me répugne. J’en ai marre. Je vais me coucher. J’espère que tu m’écoutes bien et que tu profites de ce que je viens de te dire. (j’utilise “tu” tout simplement pour ceux qui voudraient traduire ce texte - Google Translate marche mieux si on utilise “tu” au lieu de “vous”)

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