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Why Do we Always Have to Hate?

Why do we always have to hate? Why is hate our first and last alternative? Why don’t we choose to make it look beautiful instead of making it look terrible, painful, and ugly? What do we think we’d gain by hating each other? Although we love beauty, we always tend to create mess, ugliness, and chaos. Why don’t we try to understand each other instead? Aren’t our hearts yearning for peace? Why do we hurt ourselves by making it more complicated than it already is? Negativity leads nowhere. If you’re looking for progress and change, always choose the path of righteousness. If you have a chance to make it right, do it before it’s too late. Just do it. Starve your ego, it has never been your friend. We all deserve peace, love, happiness and light. Everyone does. We were not born evil. We were born to make mistakes that one day we will end up deeply regretting and that same regret will lead us to learn how to love more, to forgive those who did us wrong, to grow and change for the better. But also to value time. To be conscious of our purpose in this world. We are constantly evolving, that’s life. We have to accept it. Let’s strive to be the best version of ourselves. And this will only happen when we choose to understand each other instead of judging, or assuming things that are not true, to reflect, and ponder on everything Allah blesses us with.

You were hurt, right? You were broken? You were betrayed? Use that rage, that love you never received, that peace you never felt and spread it all around. Be kind, help others, make people smile, make their day better, it might mean a lot. All these little things will make you feel better within yourself. Life is not about receiving, but giving. And believe me you will receive more than expected. Once you learn to love yourself, to master that love, you will find peace and contentment in your heart no matter what you get in return.

They judged you, right? They criticized you? They misunderstood you? They hate you? Fine. You do not live for others, your existence does not resolve around them. It is your life. You do not belong to people. You do not even belong to yourself. You belong to Allah and to Allah is our return. Your purpose is yours. Your fight is yours. Your destiny is yours. Your deeds are yours. Stop taking ‘constructive criticism’ from someone who hasn’t constructed anything. Fight for yourself, be better for yourself. Kill them with kindness, prove them wrong. Treat them better than they treat you. Be more genuine, wiser, and kinder. Choose peace over war for the sake of Allah. Every single day. And you will always be victorious in the eyes of Allah.

There is no secret to a happy and peaceful life. The ability to accept the good as much as the wrong, the courage to choose kindness over hatred and the willingness to act for the sake of Allah only, every day of your life. That is the true success of life.

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